Farhana Kaleem Channa.
Famous boxer of Muhammad Ali once said.”friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain in words, it’s not something you learn in school.but if you haven’t learned the meaning of friend, you really haven’t learned anything.” A best friend is someone with whom we share most important and crucial things of our life. He supports you in each and every step of your life, he weaps when you weap, he laughs when you laugh. A best friend always thinks best thing for you whenever you get helpless, he becomes your strength. He knows you and he believes in you. Best friendship is built on a solid foundation of silliness, and generally misbehaviour. A best friend is a gift from God, I’m lucky to have a friend. Who always motivates me whenever I feel lazy. I want him as my friend forever and wish , pray that may Almighty Allah keep us together. At times , i imagine that what could be the abbrevation of friendship? What’s the full form of friend? The answer that falls from mind is that Friend means the first relation on earth which will never die. Good friend are loyal and accept you for who you are during the good and bed times, good friend are also honest, honest enough to tell you when you’re doing something odd. you are accepted along with all faults and follies. A good friend is always present to stand by your side. The one you don’t talk to for months because you both are busy in life ,but when you meet up, there’s nothing but love amongst you. These friends are golden. A strong friendship doesn’t need daily conversation or being together, as long as the relationship lives in the hearts, true friends are never apart. Friendship is not about people who actually pretend to be true on your face calumniate on your back. The person having double-faced can not be your friend . Reall friend is treated like family and at times more than a family. A friend give hopes and courage when life offers problems. A recent harvard study concluded that having soild friendship in our life helps, promotes brain health , medicine to handle stress , disease more quickly. A friend is also important to our mental health , good friends help us to develop our self esteem. Its someone who wants our opinion on things and who values our company .. makes us feel wanted , boosting self esteem, best friends will also be totally honest with us, Trust being able to have trust and confidence in your. Friend is one of the most important requirements of a strong relationship because true friendship means you are able to count on one another part of caring for a friend is honoring what they tell you. A healthy friendship includes plenty of honesty, rather than tip-toeing around each other’s feeling to gain approval or avoid an argument , in a positive friendship your pal won’t lie to you, and they won’t try and hurt your feelings either. Friendship is a very powerful, meaningfull relationship , it is a social relationship that has no physical likes but binds people together into a strong emotional bond . Proper friendship is about a mutual understanding of each other’s interests personal qualities and how that might fit into each of your lives and like any good relationship, this doesn’t happen overnight, it’s important that you adopt a selfless attitude if you wish to find a meaningful friend . It’s common for friends to fight . Good friend helps you to find important things when you have lost them, your smile , your hope , and your courage. Make friend who you can go get breakfast with , make friends you can cry with , make friends who support your life goals and believe in you. Friendship is one of the most important things in life to have ,if you don’t have friends are you really living a good life? The importance of a dear friend in our lives is like the importance of hearbeat they are invisible but they simply lend you a gift called life. A best friend is someone who understands your past , believe in your future , and accepts you for the way you are today . True friend knows your weakness but shows you, your strengths . I wish my friends to progress , prosper and get success in every walk of life .
(-The writer is a freelance columnist, based in Karachi.)