Ashfaque Ali Zardari
Pakistan has been called by different names like male dominant society or patriarchal society. Pakistan is a patriarchal society where men are the primary authority figures and women are subordinate. Gender is one of the organizing principles of Pakistani society. Patriarchal values embedded in local traditions, religion and culture predetermine the social value of gender. But now this concept getting change it is also famous for that women rights have been crushing in Pakistan for decades. Above these concepts are right at some extent not at all these both philosophy became a very to very by regions and people there is one concept that has been fixed into the minds of woman that woman are inferior and low gender this concept is totally nonsense. According to different perspective and my personal observation especially in educationalist families women have more right over men. It is the truth which especially majority of women do not accept because there mind has been fixed by different thoughts. I have observed that from bottom to top and micro to macro level women have more rights over men. In buses classes and seminars women have been respected more than boys in classes buses and seminar seats would be allotted to women and already settled man pick up. In universities, colleges and schools women get more respect, attention and favourism. When a boy goes to principal’s office he gets less attention and principal doesn’t listen him properly but when same time a girl goes to office she gets proper attention and offered for seat. In universities the teachers who call themselves as honest and disciplined they show flexibility towards women, In seminars mostly girls get the more attention. I mean not that women are less talented than men but they get preferences at every corner and every occasion and events, Even we follow this slogan in our country that “ladies first” in restaurants, shopping malls and other festivals. Women’s rights have became notorious but internally these rights have been accepted in educationalist families women are treated well and better, but now women must change their thoughts and throw the old barbarism thoughts and accept the reality at universities, colleges and schools level girls get more protocol then boys, in marriage ceremony women get more expenditure including dowry, cosmetics, parlour, so women should accept the reality and change the ancient thoughts.
