Gazing Culture

Malayka Liaqat
Society is often defined by its rituals, traditions, and culture. Every community has its norms and values, which form the very fabric of its identity. For example, in Japan, the Oshogatsu culture reflects a spirit of respect and generosity, with women traditionally receiving gifts and honour. Meanwhile, Pakistani society holds unique characteristics of its own, including a prevalent, though troubling, “gazing culture.” This gazing culture is commonly seen across various settings—a boy on a bike, an uncle on a bus, or an old man by the roadside will often stare at women passing by. For Pakistani men, gazing has almost become a form of social duty. Whether a woman is wearing jeans or an abaya, she is likely to be stared at, with many men justifying this behaviour as harmless or customary. But for women, this relentless gazing can feel intrusive, invasive, and even intimidating. Around the world, harassment isn’t limited to physical or sexual violence alone; non-verbal actions, like prolonged staring, can be equally distressing. This form of psychological trauma affects women significantly, creating a hostile and uncomfortable environment. Gazing is a subtle yet pervasive form of harassment, one that is often overlooked but carries considerable impact. Recognizing this, countries like France have begun criminalizing street harassment. In 2018, France passed a law making various forms of harassment, including unwelcome staring, punishable by fines. This was an important step toward reducing harassment in public spaces.In Pakistan, such protective laws are urgently needed. To curb this behaviour, a multi-faceted approach is essential. Strong, enforceable laws can deter perpetrators, but cultural change is just as crucial. Integrating ethics-based and gender-sensitive education in schools and workplaces can foster respect for personal boundaries and instil empathy. Addressing gazing culture isn’t just about curbing an uncomfortable habit; it’s about transforming societal norms and fostering a community where women feel safe and respected.